That’s awesome! I wouldn’t have waited until age 6 or 7 to start teaching her letters anyway, IMO that’s too old! I think by that age (in my experience anyway) kids should already be reading and writing. My son is 6 and takes spelling tests in school and can write full sentences and read books. Just my 2 cents though!
That’s so cool! My husband CLAIMS he could read at age 3 so hey, it could work!
Good for Charlotte! I love following my kids’ leads. My son is 5, but really wants to read, so he does a daily reading lesson with me (we homeschool as well), and my 3yo daughter always wants to sit in. She wants to write her name, and works on it. No pressure for her to learn how to do it, but it’s important to her.
One of the boys I nanny-ed for was quite verbal (like Charlotte). He learned to read some random words, could identify letters and started writing just before his third birthday.
We took your “color walk” idea and used it over and over again as a “numbers walk” (looking for numbers) and “letters” walk, “shape” walk- it’s amazing how kids can see things in ways that I can’t. I would look for letters on street signs and license plates, he would find them on the hot and cold tap and in fallen leaves.
And about the mermaid dress? Hot glue. I swear I built everything in the world out of hot glue as a child.
Having her watch you write lists and things is a great start, along with writing and hearing the sounds in her name. She will then start with drawing and labeling pictures, which will probably be scribbles unless she knows how to writeletters, then hearing the sounds they know in the word and writing letters (which is usually the first letter of the word)and then stretching out the word to hear more sounds. The letter and sound recognitionand writinga few words happens in kindergarten usuallyand in first grade its sentences.
If you are having her practice writing letters though I would suggest making sure she does it correctly. Once they practice it wrong it can be very difficult to fix later.
Definitely don’t need to wait until 6 or 7 for writing. My Charlotte is about 6 months older than yours I think and she is writing her name (sometimes leaves out a letter). Last weekend she wanted to try writing family members’ names as well. I’m totally geeked out about it too..
How did this happen? Only yesterday I had to help her hold up her head and now she can WRITE HER NAME?!?!!
Amazing, truly amazing.
I guess my assumption that she would be six or seven stems from my tendency to favor educational philosophies that delay academics and focus on physical skills, fantasy play, and sensory and emotional development in the first five to seven years. I just assumed that the reason they delayed academics was because without academic prompting, they wouldn’t develop an interest in structured learning during that phase of childhood.
I’m increasingly starting to think that I’m wrong about that. Charlotte wants to do alot of art, alot of fantasy play, alot of handwork like knitting and weaving, alot of music, alot of storytelling, alot of hiking and sitting in nature, etc…but she also wants to do what she sees us doing: reading, writing, understanding maps, drawing pictures, etc.
I think that it will vary from child to child and you will benefit from following their cues - which you seem to do a good job of with charolette. If you start working with letters and a week later she loses interest, then back off and the interest will reemerge. I know a little over a year ago my son like to stumble upon letters while drawing with sidewalk chalk. He’d get excited about an X or an A that he just happened to draw. So, we spent a couple months working on identifying letters and he could draw a good handful of them on his own. Then one day his interest subsided. Within the past 6 months the interest has reemerged and he’s writin his name and gaining more interest in letter sounds and who’s names start with what letters and what other words those sound like (start with the same sound), etc.
There is a nice Montessori game you can play with Charlotte while you nursing Evie. You draw a letter on Charlotte’s back with your finger and she finds something in the room that starts with that letter. Also, you can fill a tray with salt, sugar, cornmeal or BEST of all glitter, and have Charlotte draw letters in it with her finger. Best done outside I think.
I am of the same basic philosophy to delay academics. My daughter started asking to write at about the same age. She is now 5 1/2 and still loves to write but has no interest in learning to read. And that’s ok for me. We read together a lot and I know she will get there. I want her to WANT to learn, no matter the age.
This article comes to mind:
It’s great she’s interested. I am sure she will simply enjoy trying and playing. Looks like you are easy and letting her just have fum which is great…
Love this. T is a great letter to start with. I’d be ridiculously excited, too.

By on February 01, 2013
I get geeky about my son wanting to learn, too. We picked him up a lined white board and some dry erase markers, and a few little work books with counting and tracing activities. While he only uses them to “write letters” aka scribbling, I think it will get some use in the future.